One of the things I like about adult board games is that they provide a semi-random and fun way to introduce new sex related topics or ideas. If you want to make your own sex game or spice up another board game that you enjoy playing, you’ll face the challenge of coming up with creative erotic activities to include in your game. A similar mechanism is useful in relationship games that involve intimate questions. You may be bursting with questions to ask a new or even long term partner, but you don’t want to come across as an interrogator at an inquisition. An entire spectrum of intimate questions could be included in a board game format and revealed randomly in a fun way.
Update: also see our article Foreplay Ideas for Sexy and Romantic Games for Couples.
Many adult games use decks of cards with sexy questions, foreplay ideas, pleasuring activities or erotic challenges organized into categories or intensity levels. Cards provide enough space to include a reasonable amount of detailed text or graphics to describe an activity with appropriate flavour text as well. The content still needs to be succinctly written in just a few short sentences (unless you have really big cards). Unfortunately this requires leaving out a fair bit of background information that may be useful for some couples. This leads to the primary source of obtaining ideas for your game activities.
Many sex related ideas are best collected into a book format so they can be presented with sufficiently detailed background and contextual information. But the extra detail does introduce a different problem – individual ideas are not as convenient to access when you want them. I have a huge collection of relationship enhancement books. They all have at least a few unique and wonderful ideas that would be amazing to try out at different times. In fact, the more books you have the more difficult it becomes to find just the right activity to suit your mood.
Also, once you’ve read a book, you may not necessarily remember the idea when the time comes to use it. All the detailed background information is still in your head mixed in with all the other stuff you think about. What you need is a mechanism to trigger your recall when you’re in a situation to actually use the idea. When you’re playing a foreplay game, it’s a perfect time to trigger that recall and get frisky.
This is one reason why we developed the iLoveRandomSex app. In addition to our own list of sexy ideas, we provide a feature to add/edit your own ideas. You can even include a reference so you can look up the details later if you need. Many of our other sex apps feature in the sidebar have this feature as well.
Most couples have a collection of relationship enhancement or sex books or have at least come across articles about the subject in magazines or online. Although you may want to introduce new ideas in your game or help people learn more, you need to assume players have some level of background information already. The trick is to craft the idea in a way that most effectively ties in cues to related concepts that you expect people know. Your game provides a fun way to refresh their memory and create new memories as well.
As an adult board game designer, you’ll want to read as many books on the subject as possible while collecting key ideas as you go. Use a mind map or spreadsheet to record the essence of the idea. When you are designing your game, you can quickly scan the information and trigger your own recall. Without copying directly, you’ll be able to work the idea into your concept and more easily adapt the flavour text of the activity to your theme.
For a short cut, check out 500 Sex & Lovemaking Tips and 500 Intimate Questions for Couples for inspiration. You’ll find lots of ideas already condensed and organized for you. Note that these resources are a little tame – see below for our versions.
When you’re ready to get really naughty, check out our sexy apps and books featured in the sidebar and below. For a huge variety of straight, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and threesome foreplay activities, get our book: Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay: Hot Sex Dice Games. The sexy activities range from warm & loving to wild & kinky. Play the game as is or use the ideas in your own couples games. There are six intensity levels with 36 foreplay ideas per level that map to two dice.
Also check out our Spicy Dares & Desires adult game books. You can readily combine the dice based naughty truth or dare activities into your game designs. It will get you talking dirty and playing dirty.
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These two versions are similar in design but with different content. Gay and Lesbian variations are also available.
Whenever your game requires a sexy reward or penalty, just roll three different colored dice, then look up one of the hundreds of unique, pleasure oriented activities to enjoy. There are six intensity levels. A set of Double Dirty Dares are also included to stimulate even more fun.
All the sexual challenges and intimate questions for couples in these books are for fun and foreplay. Each intimate activity helps stoke your desire with creative new ideas for being naughty, frisky, and playful (in and out of the bedroom). These sexy truth or dare games for couples can be played anytime you want to stimulate your mind and body. Tease and tantalize each other with hot talk and delightfully delicious deeds. Add some spice to your love life and inflame your craving for each other.
These books also include a variation of the Frisky Foreplay Fooling Around game for couples.
I hope you enjoy making your own adult board game designs. If you do order one of our apps or books, Thank You! Please give it a good rating and post a comment. Great feedback will help other couples find it so they can improve their relationship too. Maybe share ideas for spicing up any of the couples games you play. Your feedback also helps motivate us to continue creating adult game design content. It’s much appreciated.