When designing adult games, you’ll want a large number of unique foreplay ideas to include. One creativity technique is to pick an erotic topic or a pleasure item and then brainstorm as many related ideas as possible. You’ll want to try for a minimum of 10 and then push toward 20, 30 or more. The first few will be relatively easy but are generally more obvious as well. Your truly creative ideas come near the end of the process when you struggle with new ways of thinking.
As an example, to help promote our Extra Naughty Kinky Sex and Frisky Foreplay Ideas game book, I wanted to write a blog post with some creative sex tips and ideas. Since I recently read an article suggesting that many women hide their vibrators from their lovers, this topic became the focus for the article. I challenged myself to come up with as many ways as I could for couples to use a vibrator together as foreplay. Why hide them from each other when they could easily be playing with them together. I even posed a sexy game couples could play that involved coming up with their own creative foreplay ideas using a vibrator.
The blog post is Frisky Vibrations: Foreplay Ideas for Couples With a Vibrator. It has over 30 different types of pleasuring activities that couples can explore together using a vibrator. See if you can come up with any new ones.
And what better way to promote the article and the game than a video on YouTube. So I wrote a quick script (included below), took some pictures of a few items on hand and whipped up a Keynote presentation. I recorded and cleaned up the voiceover using Audacity. Final touches were done in iMovie. The script was intended to follow the Hook, Path and Persuasion format from the Video Boss course I took. However, I have also been reading Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff, so I decided to try out an Intrigue Frame technique as well. The video provides a light hearted look at how many couples view sex toys in their relationship.
Frisky Vibrations – Dilemma of a Dirty Girl and Her Sex Toy
Damn!!! Apparently Youtube censors have deemed this video to be too racy, so you’ll probably have to sign in and claim you’re an adult capable of watching sensitive material. All my videos have already been demonitized long ago. And to top it all off, they recently closed my account too. We have started migrating our video content over onto X @HotLoveGames but we’ve noticed they have been shadow banning our content too.
Instead, here is the script for the video:
She thought her vibrator was safe … hidden away in her underwear drawer.
No one would ever know her guilty secret pleasure … the ecstasy of masturbating with her battery powered sex toy.
She suspected something as soon as she got home. No wonder he looked so moody and mysterious. And then, when she went up to their bedroom, he stormed out to the garage to be alone with his tools.
How did he find it? Why did he look in there? It was buried under her panties. Guys don’t touch those girly things unless they’re trying to get into them right? But there it was tossed on her pillow in plain sight.
It was a gag gift but the thrilling sensations it created were amazing. Just seeing it made her clit throb with desire. But her mind swirled with conflicting emotions.
Was he pissed off that she pleasured herself alone? What was he thinking? That he wasn’t good enough in bed for her? Was she faking her orgasms with him because she needed a vibrator to get off? And those times when she wasn’t in the mood for sex was it because she already did it herself without him? Why would she need a sex toy when she had the real thing?
Oh, of course she loved the real thing too. Intercourse was great and oral sex was heavenly. But her vibrator was magical – even better than her own fingers.
Panicking, feelings of fear, guilt and shame tried to wash over her joyful memories of forbidden pleasure.
Something had to go … her vibrator induced orgasms or her man. But she wanted and needed both!
Was their relationship over? Could he forgive her?
What the hell was he doing in there anyway?
A kinky thought crossed her mind … was he secretly trying on her panties? What else could he be doing with her silky underwear while she was away? She rushed to opened her underwear drawer and discovered ….
A brand new sleek, sensual vibrator tied with a ribbon and a note … let’s play together tonight.
Visit FriskyForeplay.com/vibratorideas to discover more than 30 ways couples can play together with a vibrator. When you’re playing together tonight, challenge each other to come up with your own frisky foreplay ideas using a vibrator. If you can think of any more naughty ways to play, please leave a comment and share it with other couples so we can all have more fun and enjoy more pleasure together.
To help inspire your partner to share their toys with you, we designed a book of love vouchers with even more creative sex play ideas:
They can be used as rewards in your love games too.